Friday, December 22, 2006

Merry Christmas!


Merry Christmas! Ho ho ho! Christmas is definately one of the most beautiful seasons. I like Christmas very much and enjoy its beauty. I always wish that I could go to places like America, United Kingdom or even just Singapore to enjoy Christmas there. But so far, I still haven't get the chance to do so. Let me target next year, to spend Christmas at least in my neighbouring country, Singapore. Haha.. Orchard road will be nice. The environment is just so different from Malaysia.


Anyway, one of the most precious things i learnt about Christmas is that the God of love, King of the universe sent His only begotten Son to earth to restore the relationship between Father God and His children, which are us. God wants to fellowship with us. He got no other way to do so because we humans are sinners, but He is holy. The only way for us to go back to His embrace is by making our sins wash away, forgiven. How?


He had to find someone who is sinless to take away our sins. As a result, He sent Jesus Christ to come among mankind, and finally to die on the cross to take away our sins. Whoever believes in Jesus, their sins are forgiven. I am glad that I know Jesus Christ. Come! Come and know the loving Saviour of the world, the Lord Jesus Christ...
Prayer: Dear Lord Jesus, I thank you for this time of Christmas. I know that more than 2,000 years ago, You came to earth, to live among mankind. I thank you for Your love that You are willing to suffer and die on the cross for me. Right now I commit myself to You, asking You to forgive me of all my sins. I receive You into my life as my Lord and Saviour. Please lead me and guide me from this day onwards. This is definately my most meaningful Christmas. Thank you Lord, in Your name I pray, Amen!

Tuesday, December 19, 2006

Wednesday, December 13, 2006

it has been awhile...


it has been awhile since i last post. i was thinking to myself, how come? i found out that i was a little lazy and did not have much ideas of what to post. anyway, things around me had been great for the past few weeks. in church, we had conference with pastor robb. we had so much fun dancing with doctor dennis, and i learnt a number of things from pastor robb.


then the following week, we had another conference with pastor pat mesiti. wow! this pastor is really funny.. and he is a very down to earth kind of man. haha.. what i learnt? dream + action, and always carry a good and godly attitude/character. last week, we had pastor mike connell and on sunday nite, we had our thanksgiving nite! woo hoo... so many exciting programs were line up for us. i saw one of the best fashion show ever, and also the hair design and make up competition.


er hmm... 'someone' was in the competition, and i took picture with her for the first time. hehe... i must admit that i was abit nervous, and so i didnt smile much in the picture. anyway, the picture is nice :)


now come this week.. nothing much exciting, but i am looking forward to christmas and hopefully that i can take a week leave off. i am really getting sick and tired of working for people already... God, help me out of the rat race!


i think that's all for now... till next time...

Tuesday, November 28, 2006

Friday, November 24, 2006

i object!

there was a thought that crossed my mind lately. anyone who been to a christian wedding will know that the pastor would ask the congregration if anyone object the marriage or not. i been to quite a number of christian weddings, but i have not seen anybody objecting the marriage before.

i wonder what will the consequences be after a person stand up and say he/she objects! let me tell my story now. i like a gal in church very much. i wish to marry this gal, but the problem is we seldom get to communicate with one another. she is a cell group leader and always busy with stuffs. i only see her once a week in church, how close can we be? besides, she is not a malaysian.

so, this thought came to me. if she ever gonna stay in malaysia and settle down here, and eventually marry another guy, i may stand up and object on her wedding day! this is because i love her and not willing to loose her. however i dont know what the consequences will be.

just imagine this. everyone is happily preparing for the wedding. the parents, family members, relatives and friends of the couple are in church. everyone is happy for them because they finally get married! in the midst of the ceremony, it is time for pastor to ask the question. and then i stand up and say: "i object! i love this gal very much. i am not willing to loose her. i wish to marry her!" for a moment, i may feel and look like a hero, and some people may even respect me of what i do, the kind of courage i have.
but on the other hand, i may just make a fool of myself. the gal may say to me: "mike, dont be crazy! today is my wedding. we hardly know each other, and i love my husband dearly. we went thru alot and finally get together. why do you treat me like this? do you think you have shown love towards me thru your action?!"

now.. last nite, the Lord rebuked me. "what you think is not from Me. do you really love her? do you love her as much as I love the people in the world? do you know that I can make all men bow down before Me and worship Me alone and no other god? I love them so much, and yet I give them a free will to choose whether they want to follow me or not. if you really love her, you should be happy for her and pray for them. why do you wanna ruin the whole thing?" said the Lord.

at that moment, i repented. i was too childish, unwise. but now i thank God that He alerted me and taught me. i commit my love life unto the Lord. if there is a gal the Lord has prepared for me, she will appear one day. if she does not appear, praise God. as paul said it is more blessed to be single and serve the Lord as he was.

to conclude, to love some body is meant to let them be free being. as long as they are happy, you should be happy for them... i know it is tough to do, but Jesus says: "you trust in God, trust also in Me..." you can do it!

true strength


Thursday, November 23, 2006

love & marriage


One day, Plato asked his teacher, "What is love? How can I find it?"


His teacher answered, "There is a vast wheat field in front. Walk forward without turning back, and pick only one stalk. If you find the most magnificent stalk, then you have found love."


Plato walked forward, and before long, he returned with empty hands, having picked nothing.
His teacher asked, "Why did you not pick any stalk?"


Plato answered, "Because I could only pick once, and yet I could not turn back. I did find the most magnificent stalk, but did not know if there were any better ones ahead, so I did not pick it. As I walked further, the stalks that I saw were not as good as the earlier one, so I did not pick any in the end.


His teacher then said, "And that is love."


On another day, Plato asked his teacher, "What is marriage? How can I Find it?"


His teacher answered, "There is a thriving forest in front. Walk forward without turning back, and chop down only one tree. If you find the tallest tree, then you have found marriage."


Plato walked forward, and before long, he returned with a tree. The tree was not thriving, and it was not tall either. It was only an ordinary tree.


His teacher asked, "Why did you chop down such an ordinary tree?"


Plato answered, "Because of my previous experience. I walked halfway through the forest, but returned with empty hands. This time, I saw this tree, and I felt that it was not bad, so I chopped it down and brought it back. I did not want to miss the opportunity."


His teacher then said, "And that is marriage."

Tuesday, November 14, 2006

alone



i am so alone... i always wish having someone who i can love, hug, kiss, always be by my side. when will she appear? will she ever come into my life? i wonder...

Monday, November 13, 2006



"there isn't feelings that can't be control, but once it's controlled, it's not real anymore..." author: mike chaow.

Thursday, November 02, 2006

my mistakes...


is it good to be straight forward? sometimes i feel that i am a little straight forward. just like today, i said something that hurted a friend. er hmm... was talking about her past with a guy. things which she told me offline, but i post it online, in her blog. sigh... anyway, thank God that she was able to delete it before others read it.


i learnt my lesson. i will be more watchful with my words next time. or should i say the way i presented the message. haha.. besides, she was talking to me about being the real us so that others do not fall in love with us for the fake us. it is easy to pretend to be a nice person when we only meet once in a while for a few hours. but what is going to happen in the future if both get into serious a relationship? can that guy or gal pretend forever? of course not.


to anyone who is reading my blog, i wanna tell you that i am who i am. whether i am happy or sad, i will show it to you, no matter if you are the gal i love or trying to persue. it's better to be real than pretend.


to conclude, be truthful and live a life!

Wednesday, November 01, 2006

believe it or not


1 If you are right handed, you will tend to chew your food on your right side. If you are left handed, you will tend to chew your food on your left side.

2 If you stop getting thirsty, you need to drink more water. For when a human body is dehydrated, its thirst mechanism shuts off.

3 Chewing gum while peeling onions will keep you from crying.

4 Your tongue is germ free only if it is pink. If it is white there is a thin film of bacteria on it.

5 The Mercedes-Benz motto is 'Das Beste oder Nichts' meaning 'the best or nothing'.

6 The Titanic was the first ship to use the SOS signal.

7 The pupil of the eye expands as much as 45 percent when a person looks at something pleasing.

8 The average person who stops smoking requires one hour less sleep a night.

9 Laughing lowers levels of stress hormones and strengthens the immunesystem. Six-year-olds laugh an average of 300 times a day. Adults only laugh 15 to 100 times a day.

10 The roar that we hear when we place a seashell next to our ear is not the ocean, but rather the sound of blood surging through the veins in the ear.

11 Dalmatians are born without spots.

12 Bats always turn left when exiting a cave.

13 The 'v' in the name of a court case does not stand for 'versus', but for 'and' (in civil proceedings) or 'against' (in criminal proceedings).

14 Men's shirts have the buttons on the right, but women's shirts have the buttons on the left.
15 The owl is the only bird to drop its upper eyelid to wink. All other birds raise their lower eyelids.

16 The reason honey is so easy to digest is that it's already been digested by a bee.

17 Roosters cannot crow if they cannot extend their necks.

18 The color blue has a calming effect. It causes the brain to release calming hormones.

19 Every time you sneeze some of your brain cells die.

20 Your left lung is smaller than your right lung to make room for your heart.

21 The verb "cleave" is the only English word with two synonyms which are antonyms of each other: adhere and separate.
22 When you blush, the lining of your stomach also turns red.

23 When hippos are upset, their sweat turns red.
24 The first Harley Davidson motorcycle was builtin 1903, and used a tomato can for a carburetor.

25 The lion that roars in the MGM logo is named Volney.

26 Google is actually the common name for a number with a million zeros.

27 Switching letters is called spoonerism. For example, saying jag of Flapan, instead of flag of Japan.

28 It cost 7 million dollars to build the Titanic and 200 million to make a film about it.

29 The attachment of the human skin to muscles is what causes dimples.

30 There are 1,792 steps to the top of the Eiffel Tower.

31 The sound you hear when you crack your knuckles is actually the sound of nitrogen gas bubbles bursting.

32 Human hair and fingernails continue to grow after death.

33 It takes about 20 seconds for a red blood cell to circle the wholebody.

34 The plastic things on the end of shoelaces are called aglets.

35 Most soccer players run 7 miles in a game.

36 The only part of the body that has no blood supply is the cornea in the eye. It takes in oxygen directly from the air.
37 Every day 200 million couples make love, 400,000 babies are born, and 140,000 people die.
38 In most watch advertisements the time displayed on the watch is 10:10 because then the arms frame the brand ofthe watch (and makeit look like it is smiling).

39 Colgate faced big obstacle marketing toothpaste in Spanish speaking countries. Colgate translates into the command "go hang yourself."

40 The only 2 animals that can see behind itself without turning its head are the rabbit and the parrot.
41 Intelligent people have more zinc and copper in their hair.

Tuesday, October 31, 2006

How to Gain Weight

While most people struggle to lose weight, there are those out there who are trying to gain weight. Being too skinny has its drawbacks, so here's how to put on some weight in a healthy way.

Steps
Weight train. Don't completely avoid aerobic exercises. You have to experiment to see how they affect your weight gain. A highly recommended book is Championship Bodybuilding by Chris Aceto.
Get more protein. Protein provides the basic building blocks for muscles. It is recommended that you eat your weight in grams. For example, keep your protein between 1-1.5 times your bodyweight. For example, for a 150lb person, he/she would eat between 150g-225g of protein per day. You will not hurt your kidneys by eating this much protein. Unless you have had a kidney removed, your kidneys will not have any problems with this amount.

Drink protein shakes. You can also buy protein in powder form. Whey protein is recommended because it is easily absorbed into the body after workouts. Mix it with milk, yogurt, and/or the fruit of your choice. The majority of your protein intake should come from real food, not protein powders.
Eat carbs, especially oatmeal and pasta. Add extra olive oil. While your protein intake will be higher than before, you should consume more carbohydrates than protein.

Eat smaller portions of food but more often. Whereas before you may have had 3 meals a day, you could have pseudo-meals in between these. As a general rule, eat every 3 hours. Don't wait till dinner to stuff yourself. Spread out your meal amounts evenly. 6-8 meals per day is feasible.

Rid yourself of any preconceived notions that dietary fat is unhealthy. Consume as much unsaturated fat as possible (but avoid saturated and particularly trans fat).

Move a portion of your calorie intake to later in the night, but at least two hours before bedtime.
Drink near a gallon to a gallon and a half of water per day.

Tips

Make your calories count. Don't fill your stomach with "empty" calories such as chips, pretzels and other treats. Instead have some sliced turkey, a handful of peanuts, yogurt, etc. Make every calorie a worthwhile calorie.

Note that some other things such as how much sleep you get and how frequently you get it will affect your metabolism. If you keep a regular sleeping pattern your body will have an easier time storing nutrients as muscle. Also, if you deal with ailments/symptoms such as depression or diabetes, they will affect your ability to gain weight.

Stay away from fast food! While it will fatten you up, it is usually loaded with harmful trans fat. You should choose foods fried in liquid, nonhydrogenated oil. It is equally fattening, and much healthier.
You can eat lots of sweet potatoes.

During the first month of weight training, expect tremendous gains if you are faithful to your schedule. However also expect this to level off after this initiatory period.

Beginner weight trainers are often "afflicted" with DOMS (Delayed Onset Muscle Soreness). This soreness is completely normal and should not prevent one to keep to their weight training schedule. It goes way after a couple days.

For those who are more extreme, you may need to (if you can) drink vegetable oil. (Non-hydrogenated, of course)If this makes you gag, hyperventilate while holding it in your mouth (very rapid breathing strongly suppresses the gag reflex.) Go and buy some liquid Lecithin (a soybean derived ingredient sold at many health food stores). Mix this with vegetable oil in a proportion of 1 part Lecithin to 10 parts oil by weight. This enhances the digestion and absorption of the oil, allowing you to consume as much as 2000 calories (about one glass) without it "going through" or making you nauseated. Don't drink more than ~2000 calories of oil/lecithin in any 9-hour period. Your digestive system can only absorb fat so fast and any more will either go straight through or make you vomit (in either case, defeating the purpose).

You still need to exercise regularly, as the body will need to adjust to the extra weight, or you will feel tired and out of breath with little or no exertion.

You still need to eat healthy if you want to stay healthy. Too much junk food will make you feel tired and depressed, and take away your energy.

Warnings

Protein, when used as a source of energy also costs a lot of energy to convert into usable energy.
Avoid salty and greasy foods.
Avoid trans-fats
If you use large amounts of carbohydrate, be careful about your blood sugar.
Be ready for some funny looks, reactions, and possible "interrogation" if you tell people you're trying to gain fat.
Extremely fast weight gain will cause stretch marks and other skin damage.


extract from: wikihow.com

Monday, October 30, 2006

Sunday, October 29, 2006

Word of God



-/\/\----------------------------------------------------------------- \ / TODAY'S VERSE from HEARTLIGHT -- http://www.heartlight.org/--//------------------------------------------------------------------


October 27, 2006


VERSE: The word of God is living and active. Sharper than anydouble-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit,joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of theheart. -- Hebrews 4:12 http://www.SearchGodsWord.org/desk/?query=Hebrews+4:12


THOUGHT: How often do you let God do major surgery on your spirit as hisSpirit uses the Word to encourage, judge, motivate, convict,instruct, and inspire? With such a great tool so readily at handfor most of us, let's not let a day go by that we don't let God usehis word on hearts.


PRAYER: Almighty God, your will is my heart's desire. But I realize thatI need to be fed more consistently by your Word revealed inScripture. Give me strength and consistency in my walk with youthrough your Word. Through your Spirit, inspire me to change whatneeds to be changed and to be blessed and encouraged in the areasthat I need it most. I turn to you and trust in your Word to pointme in the way of life. I pray in the name of your ultimate Word,Jesus of Nazareth. Amen.


Saturday, October 28, 2006

symbol of love


"once you have loved, you'll always love. for what is in your mind may escape but what is in your heart will remain forever..."

I once had a friend who grew to be very close to me. Once when we were sitting at the edge of a swimming pool, she filled the palm of her hand with a little water and held it before me, and said this: "You see this water carefully contained on my hand? It symbolizes Love."

This was how I saw it: "As long as you keep your hand caringly open and allow it to remain there, it will always be there. However, if you attempt to close your fingers round it and try to posses it, it will spill through the first cracks it finds.

This is the greatest mistake that people do when they meet love...they try to posses it, they demand, they expect... and just like the water spilling out of your hand, Love will retrieve from you. For love is meant to be free, you cannot change its nature.

If there are people you love, allow them to be free beings. Give and don't expect. Advise, but don't order. Ask, but never demand.

It might sound simple, but it is a lesson that may take a lifetime to truly practice. It is the secret to true love. To truly practice it, you must sincerely feel no expectations from those who you love, and yet an unconditional caring."

Passing thought... Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away.

Friday, October 27, 2006

i remember...


this is dedicated to the gal who i thought i could romance her, but actually found out that there is no click between us even at friends level. before my effort goes into the recycle bin, i have decided to post it here...



Ø I remember the time she and her mum sat in my car to go for supper (that was the first day of me knowing her).
Ø I remember the time I asked about her from another gal.
Ø I remember the time I watched her dance during her practice in church.
Ø I remember the time I replaced her for movie when she couldn’t make it.
Ø I remember the time I gave her a stone with her name on it.
Ø I remember the time I gave her a facial mask.
Ø I remember the time I waited in the car for her to get ready.
Ø I remember the time I opened the car door for her.
Ø I remember the time I drove her around when her car was sent for repair.
Ø I remember the time I brought her for breakfast.
Ø I remember the time I brought her tissue paper after a meal.
Ø I remember the time I listened to her talking about her past relationship with undivided attention.
Ø I remember the time I wrote her a testimonial in Friendster on 100th day of knowing her.
Ø I remember the time I held her tiny hand during prayer meeting.
Ø I remember the time I went with her for supper after cell group before sending her home.
Ø I remember the time when I felt warm all over my body when I read the line ‘brushes breadcrumbs off my lips’ in her blog: ‘It’s not… Instead it’s…’
Ø I remember the time I let her listen to Keith Urban’s ‘you’ll think of me’ thru voice sms.
Ø I remember the time I wished her ‘all the best’ and supported her in seeing her dance at KEC.
Ø I remember the time I wished her ‘good nite & sweet dream’
Ø I remember the time I sent her some love songs thru email.
Ø I remember the time I brought her bible that she left in front of the stage.
Ø I remember the time I touched her head, and she gave me a cute look ;)
Ø I remember the time I dreamt about her, not once but twice.
Ø I remember the time I brought her fork and spoon when the waiter forgot it.
Ø I remember the time I helped her to clear up after her ministry in church.
Ø I remember the time I sent her a ‘good morning’ sms.
Ø I remember the time I wanted to call her ‘sunshine’ but my lips were stuck.
Ø I remember the time I asked advice from someone close to her, of how should I act upon what I have in my heart for her.
Ø I remember the time she gave me a lovely smile.
Ø I remember the time she replied my sms though I was only sitting behind her.
Ø I remember the time she let me play with her gloves which were wet.
Ø I remember the time she tricked me to get the answer for a question.
Ø I remember the time she told me that she was hurt because she fell down during dance practice.
Ø I remember the time she talked to me in msn in the middle of the nite while I was still in office.
Ø I remember the time she encouraged me in msn.
Ø I remember the time she whispered to her friend, telling her that I am the mike who comment a lot in her blog.
Ø I remember the time she called me when I was just a distance of 100m away.
Ø I remember the time she drove me back to church, cruising at 110 km/h. woo hoo!
Ø I remember the time she asked me for movie.
Ø I remember the time she looked back and smile at me when we pass by each other.
Ø I remember the time she thanked me for helping her clear up.

how i started blogging




er hmm... let me introduce myself a little. my name is mike chaow. i live in usj, attend city harvest church. i like listening to love songs, think of ideas of how to romance a gal (but never really do it), like to go trekking, swim, surf net, read and hang out with friends.
i tried blogging when friendster came out with this feature for the very first time. i was one of the first few among my contacts who started blogging. anyway, i was not really into it and eventually stop once and for all. reason? i found that i got nothing much to write and dont have confidence that people will be interested to read my blog and leave comments.

after a long while, i came across multiply.com. i signed up for an account but never really post anything there, but today, you can see what i got in there: http://mikeccy40.multiply.com i started using multiply again when i found out that many of my church members are using it. :)

recently i got to know keng fong. i read some of the her blogs in friendster. when i was talking to her more about her blog, she gave me her url for blogspot, and so i checked it out. later on, she said i must start one because she herself is so into blogging now. haha.. so, i try to blog in here and see how it goes.. ;)

i will be back with more updates!


'mike.